Monday, January 16, 2012

"Insensitive"

A few days ago one of my friends ended up not having a ride home from school and she had to walk home instead. She wasn't very fond of the idea so I decided I would be a good friend and walk her home so she wouldn't have to be alone on her walk.

Of course I thought I was doing the right thing but instead of being thanked I was just yelled at about how she didn't have such a good day. I understand that she needed to let out her feelings but she didn't have to make me feel like I was the one to have done something wrong. She even complained about how she was hungry and how I should of brought money to school just so I could buy her something to eat.

But she isn't the only friend like that. One girl who texts me every once in awhile only because she wants to tell me something that she can't tell anyone else told me that I'm "insensitive" because when I "think" a girl is being "mean" or rude to me like the one above it's only because I'm upset about something myself.

Yeah I am upset, it would be nice to receive a thank you every once in awhile when I do something for someone. I'm not saying that only girls do this but none of the guys I know do this while most of the girls I do know do.

It's annoying when people try to put all the blame on someone that deserves none of it and especially when a "friend" who I'm trying to help does that to me.

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